Friday, November 7, 2008

5 Simple Rules to be Happy

Amer's 12th. birthday celebration... (08/10/2008)
Wow..nampak je banyak kek... but it was actually Hari Raya Open House nye kek... cian .
But I think he does not mind... buat apa membazir nak beli kek lain when we had a lot of cake given by friends during Raya.... lol..lol.... bukan kedekut tau..


Why I post the birthday picture now... is because I feel the things that I'm writting after this is a valuable advise not only for Amer but everyone.... So Amer, Ayeen, P1 and all the young ones if you are reading this... practise this in life... For the senior ones... start now...still not too late.

I had a very good conversation with an old friend over lunch today. We have not seen each other for years. The last was during my wedding - 13 years ago. We talk about so many things but one that facinate me most was on her 5 simple rules on how to be happy...

1 ) Free your heart from hatred
2) Free your mind from worries
3) Live simply
4) Give More
5) Expect Less

What do you think.???

She said that no one can go back and make a new start. But anyone can start now and make a brand new ending. God didn't promise day without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without rain but He did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears and light for the way.

That is why, when you feel down because you didn't get what you want, just sit tight and be happy, because God is thinking of something better to give you. When something happen to you, good or bad, consider what it means. There's a purpose to any life's events. To teach you how to laugh more or not to cry too hard... Very true....

You can't make someone to love you. But all you can do is be someone who can be loved, the rest is up to the other party to realise your worth.

When you truly care for someone you don't look for his or her faults.
You don't look for answer. You don't look for his or her mistake. Instead you fight the mistake, you accept the faults and you overlook the excuss. In other words ... you give more and expect less in any relationship.. and you will be bless with happiness.

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